Tuesday, October 31, 2006

More About Day 2WM

But first, some photos, in no particular chronological order.
Sometime during Day 1

Day 2 at the hotel, doing paperwork.

Walking out of the White Rose Hotel after we had just made each others' acquaintances.


Paul, Staci and Anna Mae finalizing the adoption at the White Rose hotel. Turns out we were just considered guardians for 24 hours when we first picked up our girls. We went back yesterday, signed the official papers, and put our red-inked index fingerprints above each signature.


Emma with firm possession of teething necklace (transitional object of choice) and half of a pineapple cookie.

It's seven o'clock Wednesday morning and Emma is still asleep. She went down at 9:30 last night and made but a few peeps during the night. I call that championship-level sleeping and doff my cap to her.
Andi -- As to your question re: potty training, here's what happened. For those of you less interested in details of poop 'n' pee, feel free to skip to the next paragraph. Having been convinced by Judy that Emma just may well be completely trained and would possibly scoff at diapers, I dutifully placed her on the pot several times that first morning (she sat contentedly and looked bewildered, but nothing else). In between potty placings, she wet her undiapered pants. Oops. Accident #1. I chalked it up to maternal inexperience, changed her clothes and thought we'd give it another whirl. Multiple trips to potty chair as the day wore on....nothing doing....and as I picked her up to try it once more, I noticed she had wet again (sorry about the pee stain on the carpet, Best Western Premier!) So the diapers are on her, and on her they will stay. Plenty of time to potty train somewhere down that long toddler road. Was especially grateful for diapers after she pooped twice within 10 minutes yesterday morning after breakfast.

But enough poopy talk! When we finalized the adoption at the hotel yesterday, we were able to meet with orphanage personnel and ask some questions about our girls' recent histories, the answers to which were translated by the amazing Judy Wu. Turns out Emma was in a foster family that had another foster daughter a little younger than Emma. They also had a 10-year-old biological son, so she's been used to having a big brother. Foster mom said Emma loves to be with people and likes big crowds. She can be obstinate sometimes ("sometimes when you tell her to do something, she won't do it. Or if you ask her to stop doing something, she won't stop". What? Not perfectly well-behaved?) She also would sometimes exert supremacy over little sister and commandeer toys, with no apology. Her favorite activity is "unpacking things". We found this out yesterday when we bought a bin of blocks for her at the Walmart. Came home, dumped them on the bed, and Emma attacked them with fever-eyed, drooling intensity. Dump them out, plop them back in the can, take them out again, back in they go, dump 'em out, plop 'em in. She did this for almost an hour, until it seemed like she wasn't so much playing as trying to work out the solution to some kind of problem and she started to get frustrated. That's when we decided it was naptime. There's a lot going on in that little head.
Will write more later, but we're off to a mandated museum visit for a couple hours.
Thanks, everyone, for all your comments. If you love our posts, we love your comments more!!
Love to you all,
Denny


14 comments:

Ang said...

I'm sitting here at the computer inbetween doorbell rings and "trick or treats!" and it was so fun to come to the blog and see more pictures of Emma. I especially like the shot of Emma sleeping on Denny. Priceless. I'm amazed that she slept so well. Toddlers who *aren't* undergoing a major life change but are instead simply staying in a Holiday Inn with mom and dad are notorius for sleeping terribly, so I'm so happy for you that the sleeping went well. And you're right about potty training--you have PLENTY of time for that. Sometimes I actually dreaded potty training because it was such a pain to have to run them to the bathroom constantly. Disposable diapers have made a parent's life much easier. But it's great to read the updates! Keep 'em coming! Love ya,
Angie

Anonymous said...

I am like Angie - I'm reading the blog between trick-or-treat visits. I had to stop looking at that first picture of Denny and Emma because I was handing out Halloween candy all misty-eyed!

Emma is too cool. I would love to see a picture of Joe and Emma - and one of all 3 of you together too!
With Love - Happy Halloween!
Aunt Barbie

Carol said...

Denise! You look so happy! That first picture is wonderful. I can not even express how excited and happy I am for you. :) I may just get a little weepy. I want to see a pic of all 3 of you too.

Carol

Anonymous said...

We add our thanks along with all the other blog readers who are totally hooked on this experience.
We had only 2 knocks at the door tonight, with 2 kids each time -- so we had lots of time to ooh and aaah over the latest pictures.
Denny, the big smile on your face is worth all the waiting. What a great picture.
Can't wait for your next installment.
Our love to you all

Anonymous said...

Potty training...I didn't even begin with Sam until he was three. Not a big deal.

I love the pictures too. My wish for you all is that the days you have left in China go quickly. I am sure you are ready to settle into "real" life with your new little babinski!
Aunt Erin

Anonymous said...

We should work on potty trianing the dog first! Cuase let me tell ya! Hahaha... just kiddin eh, no ah-accidents at home. Just wanted to say that you guys are awesome! Kathryn and I just can't wait to pick yous threes up at the airport. It's so exciting!!!Anywho, I love you guys!

~ Mr.P

Anonymous said...

yes, we were wondering when we will see pictures posted of emma and father wearing their matching rabbit skin hats.

abbie and sarah

andrea said...

Thanks for the potty training update. It sounds like we're living parallel lives on different continents!

Anonymous said...

What adorable pictures! I love the one of Emma sleeping peacefully with you, Denny.

I kept thinking about Emma last night, wishing she could experience her first Halloween here - darn, she missed it by just days.

Andy! Are you Mr. P? Is there something you're not telling Denny and Joe about Annie? That is too funny. I'm sure Emma will be enthralled with the dog.

How cute that she loves loading and unloading blocks so much! At it for an hour! Can we borrow her to come and help us re-side the house?....haul 50 pound boards of wood to make a floating dock for Russell's eagle scout project?

Love,
Aunt Julie

Anonymous said...

Oh, so wonderful descriptions and details. I love them all. Ellen too loved to do the stacking/unstacking and packing/unpacking. Fortunately for you, that means Emma too will be content on the airplane taking everything out of the seat pockets in front of you, putting it all back, taking it out again, etc.. during your flights. I pity the families that had to have toys to entertain their children!

My recent experience is that potty training will take care of itself. You don't have to do anything -- rather Emma will decide when she's ready and will let you know. Ellen was just under 3 for that during the day and jsut under 3.5 for night. I had tried to push it all, but learned my lesson quickly!

Glad to hear Emma is sleeping and settling in. While I'm anxious for you to be home too, all the details of life rapidly impinge upon you and your time with your child (like having to make them breakfast, not just taking them to the buffet). So, I hope your days in China go by luxuriously slowly so that you can really savor this uninterrupted time to bond and enjoy each others' company!

Anonymous said...

Denise,

This is Lesli from distribution. We love the blog and the photos. She is darling. What size of clothing is she wearing? It sounds like you are having a great time visiting great places.

Lesli Taylor

Anonymous said...

I have been checking your blog everyday to see the udpates! Emma is DARLING, what a gorgeous smile. We all can't wait to meet her.

Love, Jen Howick

Anonymous said...

Darn, no post yet. It's after midnight and I just finished my last task of a very long day and thought I'd try my luck. Read you in the mornin'.

Insomniac sister

Anonymous said...

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! We are just totally thrilled for you both. What a wonderful, exciting time in your lives. Emma is beautiful and we can't wait to see her. We'll call you when you get home and get settled.

Love,
Kathy & Taufer